Carrying legacy of Kashmir

Aarti Tikoo Singh | Senior Assistant Editor | Times of India

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Aarti Tikoo Singh is a Senior Assistant Editor with The Times of India, responsible for news selection, editing, writing and coordination for the web edition of TOI. She is a Times Aspire award winner for her various accomplishments as an editor. For almost seven years, she has reported from the State of Jammu and Kashmir, covering politics, governance and human stories.. A WISCOMP fellowship awardee, Aarti has traveled across Kashmir to study the impact of militant violence on education.

Besides two Masters degrees in Political Science and English from the University of Jammu, she has a Master in International Affairs from Columbia University, New York. She is also a Post Graduate in Journalism from Bharatiya Vidya Bhavan, Jammu. In New York, she interned with the United Nations and BBC and worked as a research assistant at Columbia University. Currently, she is working on a book about Kashmir.

She is one of the rare persons of her generation who shuttles between the words of various Kashmiri poets, pages of Rajtarangini and Abhinavgupta’s philosophy.

Excerpts from an interaction with Rajesh Prothi

What is your family background?

I come from a modest, undistinguished but progressive Kashmiri Pandit family of Anantnag town in Kashmir. In January 1990, when massive violence broke out in the Kashmir Valley, my family was forced to leave our native town and take refuge in Jammu, the city of Dogras in the southern region of the State. At that time, I was a class eight student. Times were hard, I along with my siblings grew up in one-room pigeonholes and studied in one of the schools of Jammu.

What have been the high and low points in your career?

I don’t see my profession in terms of high or low points. I have never seen it that way. Perhaps because the struggle for survival was so paramount that one couldn’t afford to think in such terms. It was always about fighting against odds, working hard, and following the path with unwavering determination. The journey that I undertook to be independent, mentally, emotionally and economically, I think, has been worth it. So the only point, in my career, was to pursue facts and truth while abiding by the principles and ethics of the profession.

So what then is your position?

The famous American journalist Walter Cronkite once said, “I think being a liberal, in the true sense, is being non-doctrinaire, non-dogmatic, non-committed to a cause – but examining each case on its merits. Being left of centre is another thing; it’s a political position. I think most newspapermen by definition have to be liberal; if they’re not liberal, by my definition of it, then they can hardly be good newspapermen. If they’re preordained dogmatists for a cause, then they can’t be very good journalists; that is, if they carry it into their journalism.” I always weigh my career in his words and I can confidently say that I qualify. I have been a dispassionate, detached and objective journalist throughout. In the 12 years of my journalistic career, I have never felt any ideological allegiance or affiliation to anything other than the guiding principles of journalism and the ones enshrined in the preamble of the Indian Constitution.

Any anecdote that you would like to share with us of the time spent in the State of Jammu & Kashmir?

There are several anecdotes and instances that I would like to share. But I would rather hold them for my book that I am currently working on.

The society you come from plays a considerable role in studies and eventually in the area of work. What has been your story?

In 1995, my father and I came to Delhi, all the way from Jammu, for my admission in a prestigious engineering college. It was a scholarship based entry and I was to pay mere Rs. 800 as my admission fee. Right at the clerk’s desk, my father asked me, very casually, if I was sure that engineering was what I really wanted to do. I thought for a second and said, “No.” He held my hand tight and we walked out of the college. Neither of my parents questioned my choice and instead they let me pursue my own dreams. My parents worked very hard to educate my sister and me through the decade of destitution following our displacement from Kashmir. Sometimes they didn’t even have enough for themselves and yet they brought us the books we wanted. They stood by me through dejections and disillusionments and also through the times when journalism felt like a place where only males could survive and succeed.

The new generation has enough resources, but they still need the counsel and at times hand-holding. What is your take on this aspect?

Aspire well and aspire high. It is not only important to desire a virtuous goal, but it is equally important to choose the righteous path. Once you have chosen, chase your dream and do not let anyone come in your way. Do not let your family or society decide for you. Do not hold yourself back just because most people around you think differently. Also, think logically and rationally but remain compassionate and humanistic in both personal and public lives.

Professionally, you are doing quite well. Is there anything besides your work which interests you?

The rich blues of the Himalayan sky, the rugged mountains hugging Shanti Stupa, the orchestra of the Lidder or the Indus, a long sleepy night of rain tapping on the tin-roofed home, Sarangi or flute in the backdrop, cogitation on philosophy, and epeolatry with incense of fresh print of jacketed books. Walking through the streets and among the idiosyncrasies of New York City, lazing and lying on the riverfront and watching the Manhattan skyline and skyscrapers, chatting with random quirky strangers in Queens and waiting for the twilight on the steps of the Low Library on a warm summer day. In the absence of the above interests, good time with family, friends and my dog, Osho. And, when they are not around, books, books and books or a good political debate, a courtroom drama, a detective series and a sci-fi movie are ideal.

What efforts do you make to keep the culture of Kashmiri alive?

Honestly, I don’t think I have made any efforts to keep the Kashmiri culture alive. It is the other way round though; Kashmiri culture keeps my spirit alive. I know I am afflicted with a certain syndrome, call it homesickness or nostalgia or Kashmir-mania or whatever you like. Perhaps, I am not the only one suffering from it, perhaps many among the displaced Kashmiris behave exactly the way I do, but I can only speak for myself here. I catch myself surfing the Internet or YouTube, for hours together, looking for videos or mp3 or little nuggets of information about music, jokes, drama, history and life in Kashmir till 1990. Much before the Internet became accessible, I would spend most of my pocket money or small earnings on buying history books on Kashmir. Now, on a quiet, solitary day in Delhi, I listen to Mahjoor’s ‘kati chukh nund banay’ sung by Kailash Mehra or Rajinder Kachroo’s ‘harmukh bar tal’ or both on the repeat mode while reading Stein’s Rajtarangini or Abhinavgupta’s Shaiva philosophy or Abdul Ahad Zargar’s poetry. Whether knowing and understanding one’s dying culture can be called an effort to preserve it, only time will tell.

What is your opinion about the true culture of Kashmir where different communities used to live together before 90’s?

There is no such thing as true culture. There are good cultures and bad cultures. Kashmir’s good culture was the culture that flourished under Sultan Zain-ul-Abidin and that entered Kashmiri households through the poetry and sayings of its saints- Lal Ded and Nund Reshi. The beauty of its syncretic culture shone in large measure even in the ’70s and the early ’80s. The bad culture is the foreign import of intolerance, violence and Islamist fundamentalism that arrived in the late ’80s and has continued to stay on and break out every now and then. It is a culture that does not belong to Kashmir or its people, traditionally. My only hope is that in my lifetime, the people of Kashmir will reject it wholeheartedly and decisively and let the good culture prevail.

  1. ROHIT says

    Hats off to you, after faced destruction in 1990’s and became well known journalist can easily inspire anyone.

  2. Sameer Dilawari Shaikh (FB) Pune says


  3. Donald Hubbard (FB) - Midlothain, Virginia says

    Let’s hear more about this book you are working on.

  4. Shiban Koul says

    Wish you all the best.
    Our community youth and intellectuals have become more inclined towards rightist mind set, post displacement. There are very few people left among them who did not allow their thought process to get polluted with ultra right world view.

  5. Arshid Malik (FB) says

    Aww! You broke a lot of those hearts today. They surely don’t want an independent minded woman.

  6. Malyaban Bhattacharya (FB) - New Delhi says


  7. Ashima Gupta (FB) says

    Beautifully written ????

  8. Divyansh Kaushik (FB) - Patiala, Punjab, India says

    This is amazing, ma’am

  9. Wajahat Waseem (FB) - Budgam, India says

    May God keep you in the right path always! Cherry tree grows well in temperate regions only not in sub-tropical or tropical regions. The grape tree grows in both regions so it should have been TheGrapeTree-Aarti Tikoo Singh. Why you named you dog OSHA?? Any ways good name.

    That’s about making abode under the cherry tree… but where she lives n how she grew under tropical conditions and adjusted herself under adverse climate… Has made her Ficus Tree or Grapes Tree.
    I mean it’s about herself only.

  10. Rakesh Kaul (FB) says

    Looking forward to your book. This interview is that of a real Kashmiri and it is living proof that the Kashmiri culture is alive, well and kicking high.

  11. Abdual Majid Baba (FB)- Srinagar says

    Remember that Kashmiri song sung by Kailash Mehra…’Pairthoo gillassi kulni tal…’ Mentions cherry tree…quite appropriate for a Kashmiri girl…


  12. Gayatri Naraya (FB) - Los Angeles, California says

    Can’t wait to read your book! You are incredible and then some…

  13. Ivanna Bilych (FB) says

    Exciting! Congrats Aarti!

  14. Suneeta Dhar (FB) New York says

    Loved it!

    1. Tambrey says

      You’ve got the right answer!

  15. Anu Raina (FB) - Oakville, Ontario says

    Loved it ….you make us proud girl ????????????????

    1. Lark says

      Your posting lays bare the truth…

  16. Jaya Parimu (FB) -Mumbai, India says

    Your book on Kashmir is something to look forward to.Must be as truthfully expounded as your interview,

  17. Gautam Kaul (FB) - Karnal says


  18. Myra MacDonald (FB) - Glasgow, United Kingdom says

    A lovely interview. I didn’t know you were writing a book on Kashmir – look forward to it.

  19. Rosy Dhar (FB) - Jammu says


  20. Antony Prem Magnifico (FB) says

    The journey doesn’t end with these pages.You’ll reach great heights. Keep shaking the right trees the fruits will fall accordingly. Wish you the best in all your endeavours. Make us proud.

  21. Manav Sachdeva Maasoom (FB) - East Lansing, Michigan says

    Could be more in depth…there are things you reveal and things you are perhaps holding back…perhaps for your book.

  22. Ranjit K. M. Nair (FB) - New Delhi says

    As an aficionado of Abhinavagupta? “How can the knower be known, dear” says Yajnavalkya to Maitreyi in the Brhadaranyakopanishad.

  23. Marwah Yash (FB) - Vasai says

    Whenever someone gives me some shit about Kashmir in the future, I know where they should invest. *_*

  24. Bashir Gaash (FB) - Srinagar says

    God bless you. Make truth widely known. And never mind what people think or say.

  25. Reena Sharma (FB) - Sangrur says

    Inspiring…Love your words.

  26. Ayaz Ahmed (FB) - New York, United States says

    See, I just learned a few more things about you!

  27. Susshhant Sharma (FB) - The Heart, Victoria, Australia says

    It’s so inspiring Ma’am. Thanks for sharing.

  28. Rajeeva Anand (FB) - Purnia, Bihār, India says


  29. Sunny Razdan (FB) - Pune, India says

    But why you married a non-Kashmiri guy. It is so painfull, you should have married a KP guy.

    I am sorry for getting personal.

    But your are a gem of our community and so beautiful you should have married in your own Kashmiri community.

    1. Snow says

      Your post has moved the debate forwad. Thanks for sharing!

  30. Abindu Dhar (FB) - Bangalore, India says

    Thank you so much for sharing Aarti Tikoo Singh interview. I espically loved this:
    “I catch myself surfing the Internet or YouTube, for hours together, looking for videos or mp3 or little nuggets of information about music, jokes, drama, history and life in Kashmir till 1990.”

    And the parts about the music of the lidder, Mr Kachroos “Harmokh bar Tal”, Stein’s Rajtarangini. Ok basically everything. Much love.

  31. Wagish Dutt (FB) says


  32. Shantiveer Kaul (FB) - New Delhi, India says

    Yeh kaun hai? Naak se toh beti lagti hai…..! smile emoticon

  33. Mubi Shaw says

    I do read her writings…she is amazing.

  34. Surender Jotshi (FB) - Noida, India says

    Reading such persons like Arati or Rajesh Prothi is breathing a clean air in an otherwise venom filled filth.

  35. Autar Mota (FB) - Noida, India says

    Excellent. As journalist, Aarti Ji is firm and fai. She writes from ground with proper feel of the issues and unbiased analysis.

  36. Renu Kaul verma says

    You write well. Would like to have a look at your manuscript

  37. M.L.Kaul. Noida UP says

    ????You are contributing to keep the Kashmiri culture alive, being a native of Anantnag Town I know Tickoo family who were residing at Lal chowk where all political activities were held. I feel proud and wish you all success, be blessed and always.

  38. TheCherryTree says

    Several aspects of this interview I liked , but notable was about mountains, monastery, skycrappers of manhattan, et al.

  39. Ozy Embers says

    Way to go, you rock girl!

    1. Tessa says

      Your’s is the intellegent approach to this issue.

  40. Tahir Mohiudin (FB) Handwara says

    Good, impressive record…

  41. Pankaj Fotedar (FB) says

    Aarti beautiful expression of thoughts and emotions! You think that men have a problem with independent and intelligent woman….not all dear !! Because of your intellect I respect and like you though I may not be agreeing with you on many issues !!

    1. Xannon says

      That’s a well thought of answers to challenging questions.

  42. Quazi Fawad (FB) says

    Awesome, a very inspiring story.

  43. Vir Kashmiri (FB) says

    Aarti Tikoo Singh…..shared with thanks…..

  44. Dipankar Sengupta (FB) - Jammu says

    Interesting ! We wait for the book! ????

  45. Catherine Delain (FB) says

    I really enjoyed reading this article. I am definitely taking away some food for thought for my personal life. Thank you for your openness.

  46. Nipa Charagi (FB) says

    Does that mean your inbox will be less cluttered now…

  47. Sethu Nair (FB) says

    So good! 🙂 And you as stunning as ever in all your ways.

  48. Bhavesh Karjee (FB) says

    You look like some actress.

  49. Shams (FB) says


  50. Nisha Yousuf Nairang (FB) - Anantnag says

    Good to hear that you have some hope for Kashmir.

  51. Faisal Azmi (FB) - Mumbai says

    Keep up the good work of highlighting the many problems of the displaced Pandits of Kashmir valley. We hear your voice and we will always resonate and echo it.

    1. Elida says

      Introduction of little rationality works.

  52. Rakesh Khar (FB) - New Delhi says

    Cute read #Aarti Tikoo Singh..thanks my old friend #Rajesh Prothi for #theCherryTree…for stitching #Kashmiri talent in all its vibrant colours…

  53. Samrana Khan says

    All the very best Aarti Tikoo Singh…You are almost always so right!!!

    Looking forward to be reading your book…

  54. Sindhu says

    Superb read, I just passed this onto a colleague who was doing research around this.

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